Aedan: Week 42
Taking Samantha to preschool in the morning is sometimes a lot of work. Getting both kids up and ready and out the door on time, especially when it's so cold outside, takes up a lot of energy. It's difficult, too, because between 9:00 and 9:30 is usually when Aedan is ready to go down for his morning nap. Sometimes he has a difficult time making it all the way without falling asleep in the car. Last Tuesday was one of those days. Aedan says, "Dropping Samantha off at preschool just wipes me out!" I love how he fell asleep holding on to both of his toys.
The frustrations of Aedan's cloth diapers continued this week. He was still wearing disposables in the meantime, and throughout the day on Monday and Tuesday I followed the directions on the Fluff Love website on how to do a mineral strip and bleach soak. I hoped that this would help get rid of any possible build-up from using Nellie's Laundry Soda to wash my diapers. Plus, I switched to Nellie's right before Aedan started developing the rash, so I wondered if that had anything to do with it as well. It took a lot of work and a lot of extra washes to start my diapers over again, but I was hopeful, more like desperate for anything to work so that we could keep using cloth, but avoid this rash.
Unfortunately, on Wednesday, the first bumGenius diaper of the day gave Aedan a rash again. I know it's just diapers and not that big of a deal, but I was so discouraged. I was tired of thinking about how to solve our cloth diaper problem and didn't want to keep spending money on various solutions. I posted my frustration on the Fluff Love website, and they suggested washing them a couple more times to be sure all the minerals that were brought to the surface were totally washed out. They also suggested using a fleece liner in Aedan's diaper as protection between his skin and the diaper, that maybe the wetness and concentration of urine in that particular area of his diaper is bothering him, and that a fleece liner would wick away the moisture faster. Another suggestion was to use a powder or cream to keep him dry and to apply it at every diaper change. The thing I still didn't understand was that he didn't have a rash until I put him in the bumGenius diaper. The Kawaii diapers we put him in overnight don't seem to bother his skin at all. You'd think that if it had to do with wetness, then he would have gotten a rash from being in the other diaper all night long. Who knows, but needless to say, I was frustrated. Diapering shouldn't be this complicated, especially when it was so easy when we first started.
Well, despite the craziness of dealing with a diaper solution, Samantha, Aedan, and I had a fun morning. We went to the library for story time with Mr. Chad, had a fun time singing songs, listening to stories, and playing with the puppets and toys they had available. Samantha was also excited to return her books all by herself. She packed her books in her Frozen backpack and carried it all by herself to the car and into the library. She was so proud of herself, felt like a big girl, and got several compliments from library staff about how cool her backpack was. She was then able to put her new books in her backpack to bring home. It was neat for her to be able to help out, and it was much easier than stuffing all the books in our already full diaper bag. I don't know why I didn't think of this sooner!
Here is a cute picture of Aedan from Wednesday night before dinner. I sure do love this little guy. :) What a smile!
Wednesday night after dinner, I left Ben with the kids so that I could go to Mom's Night Out at a local Mexican restaurant to hang out with some Oxford moms. They get together once a month, and I haven't been able to go for a couple months. I debated whether or not I really wanted to go because sometimes I feel so awkward getting to know people and having small talk, it is certainly not my forte. However, I have been feeling lonely and isolated lately, and I decided that staying home from Mom's Night Out would not help me feel more connected or like I have friends. Ben got both kids in bed and to sleep by 8:00, which I was glad for. They were definitely tired and needed to get to bed. I had a really good time out with the other moms that night. It was a much needed break, and I feel like I am starting to get to know some of the moms better. I also was able to talk to Emily, the lady I ordered our cloth diapers from, about our rash issues lately. I even showed her a picture of it, and she gave me her opinion. She didn't think it looked like a reaction to detergent or an ammonia burn. Her guess was that maybe it was from where the stitching was rubbing on Aedan's skin and that maybe it started just before six months simply because we changed the snaps on his diapers or it was just fitting him differently and rubbing in a different way. She also said it could be an irritation from wetness, so she encouraged me to use a cream like CJ's BUTTer to protect his skin from irritation once we got the rash gone using hydro-cortisone cream, which is actually cloth diaper safe, so that's good to know. I felt greatly encouraged after talking with her that night. She encouraged me to keep going and not give up on cloth diapers just yet. So we'll keep trying and hopefully find a solution.Thursday was a busy day with preschool. I hadn't made a menu or shopping list the night before since I was out at the Mom's Night Out, which caused me to rush putting one together in the morning in the midst of getting Samantha and Aedan ready. It was a big day for Samantha as it was her Valentine's Day party at preschool. She woke up early that day because she was so excited. We were in charge of bringing the goodie bags, which Samantha helped me put together on Tuesday. She also picked out princess valentines to pass out to her class. I wrote her name lightly in pencil on each one, and then she took a pen and traced over each one. She actually did a really great job writing her name. They have been working on that at preschool, and I can tell because Samantha has gotten so much better at controlling her hand as she writes the letters. When we finally got out the door and into the car, Samantha probably asked me four or five times if I remembered the bags with the goodie bags and valentines. She was super excited about her party, plus, they got an extra half an hour of make up time as well. When I picked her up at the end of the day, I didn't get too much out of her about what they did at the party, but I did get two highlights: she had a sprinkle doughnut for snack and they had a dance party in the gym. Plus, she came home with a decorated box full of valentines and candy from her friends. Sounds like a pretty good party to me!
Here are some pictures from Friday morning once Samantha and Aedan were up for the day. They are pretty cute!
Thursday night was a bit of a rough night for Aedan. He did not sleep well, waking up and crying several times throughout the night. Ben actually put him down for his morning nap on Friday, and that took some work even though Aedan was really tired and rubbing his eyes from having such a rough night. However, he woke up only half an hour later, which I was not excited about. He was crabby and needed sleep, and I was looking forward to having some one-on-one time with Samantha while he napped. Ben and I hoped that maybe he was teething or something which would explain his trouble with sleeping. Who knows, babies are such a mystery, so many different things could be affecting them and we have no idea.
On Friday afternoon my friend Maggie came over during nap time to hang out and talk for awhile. It was good to catch up with her over a cup of tea. However, after about and hour of Samantha being in her room, she started yelling for me and said she had to go potty. Aedan was still sleeping and was actually taking a good afternoon nap. I didn't want her to wake him up, so I let her go to the bathroom and then just get up for the afternoon since she wasn't sleeping anyways. Samantha has been doing this a lot lately, where she will call for Ben or me, saying she has to go potty. When we go in her room, she will be standing there holding herself like she's about to have an accident. She always goes potty right before her nap and can go all night without going potty. We're thinking it's just a ruse to get out of her room sooner because she knows we will always come in if she says she has to go potty. Anyways, once Samantha was up, it was difficult for Maggie and I to talk anymore, so we were interrupted a little bit.
Even though Aedan took a nap, he still was not in the best of moods when he woke up. He hadn't been acting much like himself lately so maybe he's teething or going through a developmental phase or something. Samantha was also crabby because of not napping that afternoon, so our afternoon was not the best with two cranky, sleepy kids. Needless to say, I was pretty excited when Ben finally came home from campus that evening. I needed a break from dealing with the kids all by myself, and I needed some adult company. I was glad it was the weekend and looked forward to being able to relax and hang out with my husband.
Here's a little video of Aedan from Friday evening, rolling around and making his funny throat noise. I've tried to get it on video before, but never have succeeded. This video is perfect. He must like how it feels in his throat when he makes that noise because he does it ALL the time!
Since we had no plans to go anywhere on Friday, Samantha requested to stay in her pajamas all day. I didn't think it was a big deal, so I let her. Pajama days are good, especially when it's been so cold out lately. While Daddy and Aedan were playing on the floor on Friday night, Samantha and I played the game Robot Turtles that she got from Uncle Timmy for Christmas. He wanted to see a video of her playing the game, so here it is! She really enjoys this game a lot.:)
On Saturday morning we let Samantha open her Valentine's Day card from Upland Grandpa and Grandma. Inside it was a neat card that she could color, a balloon, and best of all, a $1 bill. Samantha loved it all and immediately wanted to color it. So, she colored while holding the balloon in her mouth. She also was so excited that she had "cash" as she called it. She felt rich!
Ben and I were both feeling like getting out of the house and having some family fun on Saturday, so we decided to go to the Cincinnati Museum Center. What better way to spend Valentine's Day with two young children than going to the children's museum! We had never been there before and thought it would be fun to try out. We actually ended up getting a membership because we could get a discount for Ben being a Miami employee, and the membership would pay for itself after only going two times. It was obviously smaller than the Indianapolis Children's Museum, but it was a lot of fun. They had a Kid Town, a ball area, and lots of hands-on activities for building and imaginative play.
They even had a younger kid play area for kids four and under. Daddy took Aedan to the baby area where he could roll around more, and I took Samantha over to this area where she enjoyed riding a car down a little hill over and over again.
Her favorite part was probably the woods area. They had lots of tunnels and pathways to crawl in and through, and ladders and stairs that led up like you were climbing around in the tops of trees. In fact, Samantha played here for quite awhile and even came back to it while I went to nurse Aedan in the mother's nursing area. I nursed him before we left home, and he fell asleep in my arms, but once we got him in the car he didn't fall back asleep again on the drive to Cincinnati. He was so tired from not really napping at all that morning that I actually had a hard time keeping him awake to nurse that afternoon. Once he got relaxed and comfortable in my arms, he fell right asleep, nursed for awhile, and then I was able to lay him down, get the Ergo on, and strap him in, all while he kept on sleeping. Again, he didn't take as long of a nap in the Ergo as he probably should have, but at least it would get him through the rest of the afternoon.
Aedan's favorite place at the museum was probably the sand area, mimicking what it would be like to play on a beach. At first I was unsure about whether to put him in the sand or not because I was afraid he would just take big handfuls and try to eat them. However, he didn't really do that at all. He just enjoyed digging his hands into the sand, wriggling his bare toes around, and feeling the sand run between his fingers. It was great to watch him play. He was having such a fun time! We will definitely have to put our sandbox back together come spring time for now Samantha and Aedan will both enjoy playing in it.
Samantha enjoyed the sand as well, scooping and tossing it into the air, having a grand old time.
We stayed at the museum for quite awhile that afternoon since nap time for Samantha doesn't matter much anymore and Aedan can sleep easily in the Ergo. Because of that, both kids were so tired out from being at the museum all day that they both fell asleep in the car on the way home. I figured that Aedan would fall asleep since he hadn't napped much that day, but I didn't think that Samantha would. She was quietly looking at books, and then all of a sudden I noticed her book fall down to the floor and her eyes droop closed. Both Ben and I were totally shocked! But we were so glad that she actually let herself fall asleep. These little car naps did wonders for making it through the rest of the night at home.
Since Samantha napped in the car, we allowed her to watch a show once we got home because we figured that counted. Then, we just had leftovers for dinner and a low-key evening after a fun, full day. Samantha remarked later in the day, "I like that museum that's right next to our house. It's a lot of fun!"
Here's a great video of Aedan laughing hysterically as Daddy is tickling his tummy after dinner. Baby giggles are so great!
On Sunday we went to church like usual, after giving Aedan a little bit of a morning nap at home. We ended up not having small group that afternoon, so we all went back home for lunch and nap time. Samantha chose not to take a nap, but Aedan was very ready for a nap, and even Mommy and Daddy took a nap, too! We used to take a nap every Sunday afternoon, and I kind of miss that tradition of rest and relaxation on a Sunday afternoon.
Mondays are usually our days to hang out at home. We don't have any plans and there isn't much going on around town on Mondays. It had snowed overnight and was very cold (not as cold as it was going to be later in the week), so we decided to hunker down and stay warm. While Aedan napped that morning, Samantha and I read a lot of books, colored, and had hot chocolate together. Then, before lunchtime, I got my Amazon package in the mail with several things I ordered over the weekend. I thought Aedan might enjoy playing with the box once I got everything out. He definitely enjoyed it, but so did Samantha! Here are some great pictures and videos of Samantha and Aedan enjoying the box together. Who needs toys when you have an empty cardboard box?
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