Aedan: Week 30
After our big snow on Monday, Tuesday was super cold, and we had a lot of snow that blew around overnight, covering driveways and roads. In fact, it was hard for me to see where our driveway ended, so as I backed up that morning when taking Samantha to preschool, I went over the edge into the snow. My tire just kept spinning in the snow, and I was so afraid that I would end up getting stuck and be unable to take Samantha to preschool. Luckily, backing up slightly and trying to accelerate forwards from a different angle/path worked, and we were able to get on the road. For how pretty the snow is, I'm still not a big fan of driving in it, especially on country roads that aren't as frequented by cars and have snow that is blown back over a previously cleared road.
Anyways, Samantha did a really good job listening and getting ready that morning. It's amazing how much preschool is a positive motivator for her. Aedan was pretty tired and fell asleep in the car on the way home. I ended up just leaving him in his car seat upstairs in his room, and he took a nice long nap that morning while I got some work done. It's nice having calm and quiet mornings together.
That afternoon at lunch is when I took the picture of Aedan with his two teeth that I included in last week's blog. However, I wanted to include it again, because it's cute, and also, since I was taking a picture of Aedan's teeth, Samantha wanted me to take a picture of her teeth as well.
Whenever we talk about Aedan's two little teeth, Samantha talks about how she has LOTS of teeth!
Our trip to Disney is a work in progress as there are so many things you can do in advance to make your time there easier. Ben got exciting news on Tuesday from his friend, Tim, saying that he has main gate access and can get us into the parks. So, it looks like we will be able to avoid buying tickets to the parks, saving us TONS of money. We are so grateful that Tim is going out of his way to help us make the most of our trip. We are getting excited, as it is about two months away now.
Since I had nursed Aedan right before picking Samantha up from preschool, he didn't fall asleep with me after lunch like he usually does. I wanted to get Samantha down for her nap since she was acting so tired and had ballet that afternoon, so I just laid him down in his crib to see if he'd fall asleep on his own. I sat in Samantha's room for awhile, tried to be stern with her to get her to calm down and take a nap, but I could hear Aedan crying a little and didn't want to leave him for too long. I left her room after a few more minutes, even though she wasn't asleep yet. At that point, I didn't hear Aedan crying anymore, but I peeked in his room to check on him, and the below picture is what I saw. He usually sleeps on his tummy, so this surprised me. Often when he rolls over on his tummy, he will get upset and cry and won't fall asleep like that. I wonder how often he sleeps on his tummy and we don't even know it!
Luckily, Samantha did end up falling asleep, for after I left the room, I didn't hear any more noise. Aedan has been preferring to nurse closer to dinnertime rather than right when he wakes up from his afternoon nap, so I decided to take Samantha to ballet that evening. I hadn't been for awhile and was excited to watch her dance. Here are some videos and pictures from ballet.
I think one of Samantha's favorite parts of ballet is towards the end when they are allowed to pick things to dress up in, some days it's dresses or hats or tutus, or in the case of this day, they wore flower hats and carried around pretend flowers in their hands. Miss Ashley knows the right music to get the girls dancing, and today it was "Let It Go" from Frozen. Samantha is so cute running around the dance floor. She has really been enjoying these dance lessons. :)
Since we don't have Bible study on Wednesday mornings anymore, we decided to just stay home and play that morning. It was a much more relaxing morning. Aedan was able to take a good morning nap in his own crib, giving Samantha and I some one-on-one play time. She had a little bit of a cold starting as well, so it was good to take it easy that morning.
While Aedan was napping we played with all kinds of things: trains, dolls, stickers, puzzles, and hide and seek animal (One of her favorite games where where we take turns hiding stuffed animals around the house for the other one to find. However, we did have to have a conversation about how the trash can is not a good hiding place.)
Samantha really enjoys reading out of her Bible. We always read her a Bible story every night before bed, and we have read through her Bible many times throughout her life. She remembers many of the stories and enjoys going back through the Bible explaining the story by looking at what is illustrated in the picture.
Aedan took a really long nap that morning, so long that I decided we should wake him up so that way he could have lunch and still go down for an afternoon nap at a somewhat normal time.
It's funny how this is now the second day in a row that he's fallen asleep on his tummy, staying that way and sleeping comfortably, rather than freaking out and crying about being stuck on his tummy.
It's always cute when you have to wake up Aedan, and I have wanted to get it on video for awhile now. Well, today, I took advantage of the opportunity of having to wake him up to get this cute video. It's great how he goes from being sleepy to being somewhat confused to giving his sister a big smile.
Ben and I were both in the mood to go out to eat the night, but we knew it wouldn't work if Aedan didn't go back to sleep because then he'd be ready for a nap right in the middle of dinner. When he sleeps until around 4:00 or later then he doesn't really need an evening nap, but if he wakes up early, like 3:20 on this particular day, we know he won't be able to make it through the whole evening without a little nap. While Ben and I were talking about what to do for dinner, Samantha woke up from her nap, and Aedan started crying again because he had flipped back over on his tummy. I laid him on his back again and gave him the pacifier to see if he would go back to sleep. However, after a few minutes, I realized that Aedan was not going to be going back to sleep that afternoon. It was not a very restful afternoon. I felt like I spent all my time just trying to get the kids to go to sleep. Ben, being the loving husband that he is, offered to pick up Jimmy John's and bring it home for dinner so that I wouldn't have to cook. That way, we wouldn't have to worry about taking tired children out to a restaurant, but we still get the chance to not have to cook or clean up a meal. I have such a thoughtful husband, that even after a long day at work, he's willing to run errands for me and pick up dinner. Love you, my dear. :)
After a seemingly long day, it's always nice to play and laugh together as a family.
Since this is the month of November, Samantha's preschool has been discussing a lot about what a feast is, what harvesting is, and of course, about Thanksgiving. This week in particular, they learned more about the first Thanksgiving, so Samantha came home with the obligatory Native American costume of a vest made out of a brown paper bag and a feather headdress. She did look pretty cute all dressed up.
I love nursing Aedan and having him fall asleep in my arms. I had my phone in the room with me on Thursday afternoon, so I was able to take this precious picture of him sleeping on my shoulder before I laid him down in his crib.
Aedan is always pretty tired on Thursdays because we go grocery shopping after dropping Samantha off at preschool. However, for how easy it was to get Aedan down for a nap that afternoon, Samantha was not so easy. She was being silly and disrespectful and would refuse to lay down in her bed. I tried to stay in there for a few minutes like I usually do, but eventually just gave up. Then, the instant I left the room, she got up out of her bed and got a book. Last week was really good with napping as she napped every day. This week, however, napping has been a battle again. I don't like having to fight with her to get her to nap, especially because when she does nap it has only been about an hour and fifteen minutes or so, which is good, better than no nap, but still not worth the fight sometimes. Samantha didn't nap that afternoon, making for an interesting evening. She's always a bit more easygoing when she's napped and rested.
Friday morning I woke up with a terrible headache, one that hurt so bad it was almost making me sick to my stomach. Aedan woke up around 6:30 that morning, and I nursed him and tried to get him to go back to sleep, but he wasn't interested, he had slept through the night and was ready to start his day. I took him downstairs while Ben was in the shower and Samantha slept, but as soon as Ben was done, I went back upstairs to lay down and get some more sleep. Thankfully, since it was a Friday, Ben didn't have to be on campus at any certain time and could stay and hang out for awhile. I woke back up around 9:00 and felt much better. My headache wasn't totally gone, but I felt good enough to function again. Ben went off to campus, and the kids and I hung out at home for the morning. Again, I offered to Samantha to go to the library for story time, but she wasn't interested. She was pretty tired from not napping the day before, still had a lingering cold, and was enjoying her time playing at home.
That afternoon, despite how tired Samantha was, she did not nap again. She was being disrespectful and thought it was funny that she wasn't staying in her bed. Her not napping put us in a predicament because we had a small group get together that evening for pizza and games at 5:30, but we weren't so sure we should let Samantha go when she hadn't napped. We aren't tying what we do to whether or not she naps, but it's hard being out in the evening when she's tired and needs to be put to bed early. However, Ben and I were really looking forward to this time with our friends, so we decided to go anyways.
Samantha did pretty well eating and playing with the other kids while we were there. They all know each other, and Samantha is the youngest out of the kids that are not babies, so she was kind of a tag along, following them around wherever they went. Sometimes I feel bad for Samantha when I see her in groups of kids because I feel like she is left out sometimes. I feel like she wants to play and wants to join in but doesn't know how. I see a lot of myself in her sometimes because that's how I always felt as a kid, like I wanted to be part of the group but was always on the outside, not knowing how to join in and not feeling like I fit in. I know how that feels, and I don't want her to feel that way.
Aedan was hanging in there pretty well, even though he was getting pretty sleepy. Ben and I were able to play part of one game before we determined it was time to head out and get our kids to bed. Somewhere around 8:00 I gave Samantha a five minute warning, which actually ended up being much longer than that. Then, I went down to the basement to get her, and she was captivated by the movie they were watching. I gently told her it was time to go since it was both her and Aedan's bedtime, especially since she didn't nap that day. Of course, she didn't want to be pulled away from the movie when everyone else was staying there, so I had to pick her up and carry her. She refused to get her own socks and shoes on, so I had to do it for her while she fought me. Then, she said she had to go potty before we left, so I took her to the bathroom, and she refused to get on the potty, so I had to put her on it. She then proceeded to yell, "Get out of here! Get away from me!" Her face was so tired, her eyes had huge bags under them, and she was actually crying and yelling with her eyes closed she was so tired. I knew we just needed to get out of there, so I tried to ignore her yelling as best I could, not letting it get a reaction out of me, but it's hard not to feel sad when your child yells at you like that. I don't know if it was the best idea for us to have gone out that evening with how she reacted when we left. She has just been so tired lately, especially when she doesn't nap.
Saturday was supposed to be a fairly warm day, and it was the first day of the Festival of Lights at the Cincinnati Zoo. Depending on how Samantha was acting on Saturday morning and whether or not she took a nap, would determine if we were going to go to the zoo that evening.
We just hung out at home that morning, playing together with Daddy. Here is Samantha singing the "Happy Days" theme song that Daddy taught her.
Both Samantha and Aedan took good naps that afternoon, so we decided to make a trip to the Cincinnati Zoo. We have been to Christmas at the Zoo at the Indianapolis Zoo, so we didn't know what to expect out of Cincinnati, particularly since it is much bigger, with many hills and many more trees. It was the first official night of the Festival of Lights, besides for the member's preview the night before. With the weather being significantly warmer than normal for this time of year, combined with it being open day, made for a very large crowd at the zoo that evening.
When you first arrive in the parking lot, you have to go up an escalator or elevator to get to the bridge that leads you over the road and into the zoo. Here is the large rhino that was at the entrance to the escalator/elevator.
This was the view from across the road, before crossing over the bridge. Samantha was SO excited about all the lights.
The bridge was covered in a tunnel of lights that was so cool to walk through. Aedan was sitting in the front of the stroller and just stared up at all the blinking lights.
Then, in the main entrance of the zoo, they had a gigantic Christmas tree, covered in beautiful, bright lights. They even had Frosty the Snowman posing for pictures with kids, but we skipped that part.
As we walked over to a little restaurant to get some dinner, we passed the pond that is in the center of the zoo. Back when we were here for Halloween, we saw some of the lights that they started putting up, but we had no idea it would look like this. The whole area around the pond was covered in lights, and they were actually playing in time to the music playing over the speakers. It was wonderful to just stand there and watch the light show.
However, the best part of the train ride was when we got to circle the pond and watch the lights dance to the music of another Christmas song. It was just beautiful.
The lights really were the main attraction at the zoo that evening. In fact, I don't think we saw any animals except for one monkey on top of monkey island and the reindeer that were in a special exhibit. We spent most of the rest of the night walking around the zoo and looking at the trees covered in lights. They had a little nativity scene set up, which Samantha enjoyed looking at for awhile.
And near the carousel and reindeer, there was this rainbow tunnel of lights.Our last stop before going home was a ride on the carousel for Samantha. Aedan had fallen asleep in the Ergo for a nice evening nap, all wrapped up with a hat and blanket around him, so I waited while Daddy went on with Samantha. Carousels still put a smile on her face. :)
It was already 8:00, which is bedtime for both children. We had seen everything we wanted to see and done everything we wanted to do, so we figured we'd take pictures in front of the big Christmas tree before heading out to the car. We had a wonderful evening at the zoo, and if the weather is ever warmer again, we may have to make another trip there this year.
After having a busy couple of nights over the weekend, we took Sunday as a day of rest, going to church and having the whole family take a nap that afternoon. Samantha got to watch a show when she woke up and chose to watch Shrek. She had to go get her Shrek and donkey figure to hold while she watched the movie, so we took a couple pictures of her to send to Uncle Timmy since he helped work on some of the Shrek movies.
Mondays are always fairly relaxing days around our house, as we don't have anywhere to be, so we generally just hang out, let Aedan take a good nap, and play at home. Plus, it was going to be a rainy day, and I had to clean the house, perfect reasons to lay low.
That morning when I went in to get Aedan out of his crib, he was turned around completely the other direction. I normally lay him down with his head to the left, and he was turned with his head to the right. He is definitely starting to move around more in bed, as well as on the floor when he's playing. In fact, there have been a couple times that he has rolled over and hit his head on something because of where he rolled. He's very good at rolling from his back to his tummy, but not quite so good at rolling back, so oftentimes he will get "stuck" on his tummy and eventually get frustrated. However, I think he is starting to like his view of the world better this way, especially when interacting with Samantha.
I know I've mentioned this before, but Samantha has gotten a lot more creative in how she plays with toys. Sunday night as we were playing together in her play room, she lined up animals and dolls, giving them all plates with a cookie on it, as well as a hot pad underneath each one because the plates were hot as the cookies had just come out of the oven. Daddy asked me to take a picture of everyone lined up because it was just so cute.































